Hi, polga, and I am sad to hear about your distress, even while understanding it as a forging process in our lives (some mechanic that we all share to varying degrees). *hands you a single daylily for comfort and comradery*
I realize the internet can be a risky place to share, and that you are unsure how much you should share, but I agree with what others are urging: that the more details and reflections and emotions you can share, the more meaningful it can be to us all (you most of all). With what little you shared, I can see that it was a deeply meaningful/loaded dream for you, and I would speculate that there is a *lot* happening in it (both to cause and structure the dream, as well as what you might gain/learn from it). Being honest and detailed about your feelings is a great starting place, but so many more things can help once you understand all the intricate possibilities of dreaming!
The dream could just as easily be addressing your dread/turmoil as it could be giving you hope (and even comfort, if that is how you can take it). If we knew more about meeting setting, or *how* it seemed to change into a more religious (cult?) vibe (don't drink the punch!)... Or other meeting details you recall could affect the meaning (many people look for indicators like symbols for this very purpose, to look for hints defining meaning); like you clearly rejected the religiosity of the meeting, but why do you think that is? Or what even was written on the takeaway (did it look at all like a pamphlet or leaflet you might recognize?), even in the most general impression/sense. Did you wake up as soon as you agreed/accepted the ride from the handsome man, or where there any other impressions right before you woke/as you were waking up? These things might help others give you pointers that would ultimately help you find your own meaning from your dream (and therefore what you can learn from it).
In any case, I wish you informative/helpful dreaming.