A message from a deceased loved one

[MidnightZ]

Hi everyone
I would be very happy if someone who has a knowledge and understanding in this area could help me. My mother died about two years ago from a heart and lung problem. few times I dreamed of her - and we talked over the phone. The first few times she sounded fine, strong, one time I even saw her as if through a screen organizing things. This time - I called her in a dream after I was scared because I couldn't reach her few times, and she answered and sounded weak or tired - I told her it was me. And she asked me: "Son? Was it real?" - as if in the sense of not remembering she has a son. I continued and said that I was very worried about her and she told me that she has a problem with rust in her lungs. after that I woke up.

Me and my mom were very close always, but 2 months before her passing she was angry with me for my partner who she claimed was toxic (I came to realise later she was right. We are still living together but finally separated and will be moving different homes in few months) and for not spending enough Time with her.

The dream made me scared that she is upset with me or that she is not well in her after life. I just want know that she is alright and that she knows how much I'm sorry and that my life are really empty without her. I pray and hope she knows how much I love and miss her every second of every day

It could be that she is trying to tell me something but I am clueless. I just want to know that she is ok and what it is she is maybe trying to tell me?

Thank you

 

[DammitDog]

Just guessing from what my own thoughts would be - You miss her, probably feel a little guilt that there was distance due to your partner and wondering if your mom knew how much you loved her (all natural responses after losing a loved one). I would think if your mom saw your partner clearly and warned you, she'd be happy to know that you're now breaking away. Clearly your mom loved you or she wouldn't have said what she did about your partner to you, knowing that it might cause a rift. She cared enough to risk that, even with little time left. Having lost a parent myself, I can tell you that no matter what you do, you will always second guess whether it was enough or even the right thing when they're gone. I think its human nature to examine how you could've done better. Losing your mom and now losing your relationship (even if ultimately for the best for you) are tough things to deal with. That is bound to show up in your dreams and I think that is probably what this is. Think about how much your mom loved you. Having a rough day? Talk to her about it. It keeps her spirit alive with you and it'd be my guess you will know just what kind of advice she'd give you anyway.

 

[Harvey]

Hallo MidnihtZ, I read your dream and the comment of DammitDog and this two following quotes are 'telling' me what is going on: you, "This time - I called her in a dream after I was scared because I couldn't reach her few times, and she answered and sounded weak or tired - I told her it was me. And she asked me: "Son? Was it real?"

DammitDog, "I would think if your mom saw your partner clearly and warned you, she'd be happy to know that you're now breaking away."

 She'd be happy but she is clearly not! She doesn't recognize you as a 'son'! That is to say "you're the son of The Other One"!
I think I know what's going on here:

If you read sevaral of my comments, I used a so called standard model of the dreamer, the ego (you in this case) discribing his dream whereby in general his (loving) partner symbolize his soul, his children symbolize his spirit and the house symbolize his body, where this spiritual partners, he and his soul/God live in.

Depending of the circunstances this model varies. In your case, you have separated in a bad way, so your partner doesn't function as symbol of the Soul/ God anymore. That is why your (during her life time, loving and carring) mother function as such (as the soul/  God)!

But 'she, He doesn't recognize you as a son ("Son? Was it real?") and the communication is cut off, "you don't see her any more as if through a screen".

Probably you have committed a deadly sin bowing for another God, breaking the first and most important amandment, making The Other One your god: You are not partner/son of 'her',  Him anymore.

I think that that is the message here.

 

[DammitDog]

Hallo MidnihtZ, I read your dream and the comment of DammitDog and this two following quotes are 'telling' me what is going on: you, "This time - I called her in a dream after I was scared because I couldn't reach her few times, and she answered and sounded weak or tired - I told her it was me. And she asked me: "Son? Was it real?"

DammitDog, "I would think if your mom saw your partner clearly and warned you, she'd be happy to know that you're now breaking away."

 She'd be happy but she is clearly not! She doesn't recognize you as a 'son'! That is to say "your the son of The Other One"!
I think I know what's going on here:

If you read sevaral of my comments, I used a so called standard model of the dreamer, the ego (you in this case) discribing his dream whereby in general his (loving) partner symbolize his soul, his children symbolize his spirit and the house symbolize his body, where this spiritual partners, he and his soul/God live in.

Depending of the circunstances this model varies. On your case, you have separated in a bad way, so your partner doesn't function as symbol of the Soul/ God anymore. That is why your (during here life time, loving and carring) mother function as such (as the soul/  God)!

But 'she, He doesn't recognize you as a son (Son? Was it real?") and the communication is cut off, "you don't see her any more as if through a screen".

Probably you have committed a deadly sin bowing for another God, making The Other One your god: You are not son of 'here',  Him anymore.

I think that that is the message here.

WTF is wrong with you? So you claim to speak for his mom? What a horrible thing to say to someone. Our dreams are our subconscious minds attempts to work through issues troubling us and in lighter times, recreation. You must have a lot of really screwed up relations to think a parent that cares enough to tell a child something they don't want to hear would then turn their back on them for struggling to see it right away. There are some universal symbols but often dreams are built much more on personal associations. The loss of the OP's mom and his relationship seem to be weighing heavily on him so of course his brain will attempt to work it out in dreams. You proposing that his mom journeyed back from the beyond to deny him speaks volumes to your own level of dysfunction and to assert it as fact rather than just a different perspective to be considered is the height of arrogance.

 

[Harvey]

I see, you are really a dog! I was just interpretating doing my best job answering midnightZ. You have other ideas, that's okey if it is the thrut!

 

[MidnightZ]

Just guessing from what my own thoughts would be - You miss her, probably feel a little guilt that there was distance due to your partner and wondering if your mom knew how much you loved her (all natural responses after losing a loved one). I would think if your mom saw your partner clearly and warned you, she'd be happy to know that you're now breaking away. Clearly your mom loved you or she wouldn't have said what she did about your partner to you, knowing that it might cause a rift. She cared enough to risk that, even with little time left. Having lost a parent myself, I can tell you that no matter what you do, you will always second guess whether it was enough or even the right thing when they're gone. I think its human nature to examine how you could've done better. Losing your mom and now losing your relationship (even if ultimately for the best for you) are tough things to deal with. That is bound to show up in your dreams and I think that is probably what this is. Think about how much your mom loved you. Having a rough day? Talk to her about it. It keeps her spirit alive with you and it'd be my guess you will know just what kind of advice she'd give you anyway.

Thank you very much. I really appreciate your answer. thank you!

 

[Harvey]

Thank you very much. I really appreciate your answer. thank you!

If you have really understood me,  Him, because i am just a servant, than you are not damned. Just start communicate with Him the way He instructed us in Mathew 6:4 , but now, calling Him delebaratly by His name and He will come and answer you!