Manifesting Dream?

[VertigoBrain]

Excuse my weirdness as I am at a loss of trying to understand the last few months, years, I have been divorced for 6 years and apart from the odd date I really havent been that interested in jumping back in, I am soon to turn 56 and have been in relationships on and off since I was 17 and really just wanted to find out who I was as I have been with someone since I was a kid, The last few years I have had odd dreams of the same women blue eyes, blonde hair & quite beautiful to me, where we just talk and enjoy each others company and understand each other and she smells good, it is very organic & she understands me, I am INFP-t so can be a bit weird to some people, but she gets me, this dream comes and goes,
Then one day walking to my fav Coffee shop she walked past me we both looked at each other smiled a familiarity and kept on our way, so this person that has been in my dream for the last few years exists in my town? I have let it be, I am a believer in synchronicity, then last week Monday 23/12 a pic of her pops up on social media and I find out her name age and she is single but we have no associates in common nor have we met in any capacity, I am just a bit weirded out, can this happen or is it coincidence or similarities. Have I somehow manifested this gorgeous woman into my reality or am I just being a silly fool? Thank You

 

[PaulKH]

Wow, an incredible use of dreaming, and wonderful descriptions--thanks for that!

I know through experience that one of dreaming's functions can be that of training/preparing, so it *is* in the realm of possibility that you were being prepped in order to put your best foot forward--could she be your soulmate...well, that will partly-mostly be for her to decide. I mean, it *could* be one of those magnificent coincidences--reality is large enough to accommodate that even if it won't make a good Hallmark movie!

However, I know this beyond doubt: there is nothing more tragic than missing an opportunity that you are unprepared for, so I highly recommend you prepare yourself rather than freak yourself out (further, heh), and do exactly that: put your best foot forward when meeting the real her! Heh, perhaps wait until you are certain she *seems* like the same person before telling her about your dreams (otherwise you could seriously weird her or pressure her in a way that could backfire/make her run). Best general advice I have: let her get to know you at her own pace, not yours. But at the very least, savor this incredibly rare experience as the gift that it is. Cheers!

 

[VertigoBrain]

Wow, an incredible use of dreaming, and wonderful descriptions--thanks for that!

I know through experience that one of dreaming's functions can be that of training/preparing, so it *is* in the realm of possibility that you were being prepped in order to put your best foot forward--could she be your soulmate...well, that will partly-mostly be for her to decide. I mean, it *could* be one of those magnificent coincidences--reality is large enough to accommodate that even if it won't make a good Hallmark movie!

However, I know this beyond doubt: there is nothing more tragic than missing an opportunity that you are unprepared for, so I highly recommend you prepare yourself rather than freak yourself out (further, heh), and do exactly that: put your best foot forward when meeting the real her! Heh, perhaps wait until you are certain she *seems* like the same person before telling her about your dreams (otherwise you could seriously weird her or pressure her in a way that could backfire/make her run). Best general advice I have: let her get to know you at her own pace, not yours. But at the very least, savor this incredibly rare experience as the gift that it is. Cheers!

Oh yes I don't think leading with the "I dreamed about you before I met you" would go down to well, as from my powers of deduction I believe she is a Psychologist & her office is near my home, It is weird as I told my best mate about these dreams 6 months ago and described her then last week I showed him her pic and he was like wow, exactly as I described her, it just seems weird.. but you never know Cheers Pat