Need help interpreting this dream please!!

[lemoncake20]

Been days and no one has answered in the relationship dream discussion so I'll try here!

There's someone that I have been thinking about non-stop 24/7 for a year now. I truly do think I love him. [Let's call him K]. I had a dream recently where we were at this beautiful place and we were at some sort of ceremony and I said something and someone was asking K, did you just say that? But K laughed and said no it wasn't me it was her (meaning me). I then laughed with K saying yeah, I was just repeating what someone else said. This conversation was happening whilst we were leaving. And then, he interlocked his arm with mine randomly and outside was this beautiful field and there were like many places to stay. I think it was like a holiday resort type of estate. Anyways, after he interlocked his arm with mine, we were just walking around and asking questions like “What are you doing here?” “How are you?” And some personal questions. And then, we arrive at the place he is staying at. We go upstairs to his room, and he has this balcony type of thing and the view was beautiful. I asked him, what is his dream and what he wants for the future, he answers. Then he turns me around and puts his arms around me. He asks me the same question, I tell him my dreams, my future whilst he has his arms around me and we're both just looking at the beautiful view from his balcony thing. Whilst in this position, I felt a type of comfort and ease I've never ever felt before. The feeling was surreal. Having his arms around me made me feel so at peace. I had my eyes closed whilst I told him my dreams and future and then my dream just ended. Also, throughout our walk to his place our conversation was amazing, we were having a laugh, we were enjoying each other's company and yeah. I have no idea what this dream means😭 could someone help please. That comfort and peace I felt in his arms, I've never ever felt before. It was genuinely pure peace and a surreal feeling I honestly don't know how to describe it. Anyway, I'd appreciate if anyone could tell me what this means. Thank you

 

[oliverwedgwood]

Hi! Thanks for sharing your dream - it sounds like it was a wonderful experience!

Fields are usually encouraging us to have an open heart and share our feelings.

Going upstairs and balconies are often about being in our heads, so are you over-thinking this?

The feeling of a dream is very important, and this is overwhelmingly positive here, which is very good to see.

So... what's the situation with KJ? Is there a possibility of developing a relationship with him in waking life?



Olly

 

[lemoncake20]

Hi! Thanks for sharing your dream - it sounds like it was a wonderful experience!

Fields are usually encouraging us to have an open heart and share our feelings.

Going upstairs and balconies are often about being in our heads, so are you over-thinking this?

The feeling of a dream is very important, and this is overwhelmingly positive here, which is very good to see.

So... what's the situation with KJ? Is there a possibility of developing a relationship with him in waking life?



Olly

Thank you so much for your response!

I honestly have no idea 😭 . I guess I'll have to wait and see!

 

[oliverwedgwood]

Had a few more thoughts about your dream... I think it's saying, "Go for it!" because we see you getting close to a masculine energy aspect in the form of KJ.

Masculine energy aspects include confidence, belief in yourself, feeling secure/safe and courage.

It may well be suggesting that a relationship with KJ could develop one or more of these qualities in yourself.

Hope that helps

 

[lemoncake20]

Had a few more thoughts about your dream... I think it's saying, "Go for it!" because we see you getting close to a masculine energy aspect in the form of KJ.

Masculine energy aspects include confidence, belief in yourself, feeling secure/safe and courage.

It may well be suggesting that a relationship with KJ could develop one or more of these qualities in yourself.

Hope that helps

Ooh, this is really helpful!
Thank you so much!

 

[Harvey]

This dream is about your Soul/child of God, your spiritual partner, with whom from conception you spend 24/7 and with whom aparantly you have a fenomenale relationship a good relationship, knows you are in a rose cloud because of your crush, aparently approve him as an excellent candidate! In the dream He made you a few suggestions how to aproach your crush: just say something to draw his atension en the rest wil be hustory. The view you see trough his (and yours!) balcony is the world and "the many places to stay in ... with are the choices of beatifull" handsome man there are as possible candidates (this conversation and view is in your head and trogh your eye, " the balcony , if ever react i can go in detail. But if if every thing went well maybe some of the duscripted stuff is already history!

 

[Lyn Holley]

Been days and no one has answered in the relationship dream discussion so I'll try here!

There's someone that I have been thinking about non-stop 24/7 for a year now. I truly do think I love him. [Let's call him K]. I had a dream recently where we were at this beautiful place and we were at some sort of ceremony and I said something and someone was asking K, did you just say that? But K laughed and said no it wasn't me it was her (meaning me). I then laughed with K saying yeah, I was just repeating what someone else said. This conversation was happening whilst we were leaving. And then, he interlocked his arm with mine randomly and outside was this beautiful field and there were like many places to stay. I think it was like a holiday resort type of estate. Anyways, after he interlocked his arm with mine, we were just walking around and asking questions like “What are you doing here?” “How are you?” And some personal questions. And then, we arrive at the place he is staying at. We go upstairs to his room, and he has this balcony type of thing and the view was beautiful. I asked him, what is his dream and what he wants for the future, he answers. Then he turns me around and puts his arms around me. He asks me the same question, I tell him my dreams, my future whilst he has his arms around me and we're both just looking at the beautiful view from his balcony thing. Whilst in this position, I felt a type of comfort and ease I've never ever felt before. The feeling was surreal. Having his arms around me made me feel so at peace. I had my eyes closed whilst I told him my dreams and future and then my dream just ended. Also, throughout our walk to his place our conversation was amazing, we were having a laugh, we were enjoying each other's company and yeah. I have no idea what this dream means😭 could someone help please. That comfort and peace I felt in his arms, I've never ever felt before. It was genuinely pure peace and a surreal feeling I honestly don't know how to describe it. Anyway, I'd appreciate if anyone could tell me what this means. Thank you

Some dreams are, "wish fulfillment." When we want something badly it may play out in our dreams. This doesn't mean it won't happen in waking life.

 

[Harvey]

Been days and no one has answered in the relationship dream discussion so I'll try here!

There's someone that I have been thinking about non-stop 24/7 for a year now. I truly do think I love him. [Let's call him K]. I had a dream recently where we were at this beautiful place and we were at some sort of ceremony and I said something and someone was asking K, did you just say that? But K laughed and said no it wasn't me it was her (meaning me). I then laughed with K saying yeah, I was just repeating what someone else said. This conversation was happening whilst we were leaving. And then, he interlocked his arm with mine randomly and outside was this beautiful field and there were like many places to stay. I think it was like a holiday resort type of estate. Anyways, after he interlocked his arm with mine, we were just walking around and asking questions like “What are you doing here?” “How are you?” And some personal questions. And then, we arrive at the place he is staying at. We go upstairs to his room, and he has this balcony type of thing and the view was beautiful. I asked him, what is his dream and what he wants for the future, he answers. Then he turns me around and puts his arms around me. He asks me the same question, I tell him my dreams, my future whilst he has his arms around me and we're both just looking at the beautiful view from his balcony thing. Whilst in this position, I felt a type of comfort and ease I've never ever felt before. The feeling was surreal. Having his arms around me made me feel so at peace. I had my eyes closed whilst I told him my dreams and future and then my dream just ended. Also, throughout our walk to his place our conversation was amazing, we were having a laugh, we were enjoying each other's company and yeah. I have no idea what this dream means😭 could someone help please. That comfort and peace I felt in his arms, I've never ever felt before. It was genuinely pure peace and a surreal feeling I honestly don't know how to describe it. Anyway, I'd appreciate if anyone could tell me what this means. Thank

Indeed Lyn, often simply wishfull thingking. But I was especially hoping for critical questions from you and all the travelers of the exercise created by Paul. This is a special case. And I consider it very likely that her wish has already been fulfilled if she has gone into the suggestions of her soul and made a small comment near or towards K. We haven't seen her since then, hopefully she'll report back.

I had already explained this dream in detail yesterday afternoon starting with the method I have developed as standard (to understand) how the dreamer the ego in the dream describes his/herself as part of a married couple in a house, the his body:

1. The Soul / God as hiswife/her husband
2. His/her spirit as one of the children
3. His/Her body as the house they live in etc etc ... but unfortunately; I was almost done with the careful explanation of the whole dream when I accidentally pressed a wrong button and lost my entire work!!! Thats why, frustrated, afterwards, here above i gave a dictate, not an explanation what i normaly do, in a process everybody can follow me step by step walking trough the dream scene logicly, psycho-logicly, because 'the nightvision' is written in the language of the spirit, the psyche, thus decoding the dream.

I did not choose to explain this dream exclusively to the dreamer, but because it it so unique and I found it interesting enough to serve as an example how teenagers and young adults describe themselves as a deviation from the standard model, ... and to lay out the logic base of where this standard model for every man originates from:

At the time of conception, God adds his life-giving spark, the Soul (the real man and child of Him made his image and likeness and thus divine!) to the fertilized egg. This is considered by God to be a sacred union of the soul with the egg that will grow into man. This union lasts until death because then a soulless body remains, right? This is why the dreamer unconsciously describes himself as a couple living in the house by default. "the child" in the dream is then the ego, especially the spirit of the ego, which is nourished from the energy of the Soul.

As to Lemoncake;
As standard to teenager and young adults referring to their Soul in the great majoriy of their dream

1. Her Soul Soul as "the boy / girl I am in love with", "my crush". .... The 'standard house' is initially "the ceremony room" where she is with K. 2. Her spirit : she is young and has no children, but if it would be necessary in te context of the dream she would say something like "i have no children but in the dream i know it was my child"

"he locked his arm with mine randomly and outside was this beautiful field and there were like many places to stay.

" this beautiful field and there were like many places to stay" is the pool of other excellent candidates from which she can choose that her Soul, her spiritual partner, represented by K, put in frontof her to bear in mind, where the (male) candidates are also presented as other 'houses'.

"Interlocked" underlines the close bond you have with Him ... you pray, talk, communicate a lot with Him.

The 'ceremony space' will probably be the brain room/hart/ mind in your head where, closed off from the outside world, you are constantly connected to him according to according to the instructions  He gave in Mathew 6 beginning from vers 4.

You can see that the standard space, 'the house' in which the dreamer is with her Soul, refers to different concepts here: body; brain room ; ... at balcony she looks through her eyes with Him to the world.

P.S : if she was not in love with someone The one who would representing her as closest neigbour, depending off the theme and the place of the message would be her mother, father, brother or sister, the dog, any member of the household or even ... the next door neighbour!

 

[Lyn Holley]

There is way too much, "mansplaining" going on in this space. I am replying to the dreamer and only the dreamer should answer me. Thank you.

 

[Harvey]

That is pathatic for someone who react on my explanation on a dreamer waiting for one and a half year for an answer and just hours after that , that person react on me!

There is way too much, "mansplaining" going on in this space. I am replying to the dreamer and only the dreamer should answer me. Thank you.

 

[Lyn Holley]

Dear Harvey, I obviously did not make myself clear and it is very possible that I have lost the whole thread of this conversation. My point is that if I answer a dreamer,
I don't feel it is right for another person to critique my take on the dream, except the dreamer. This has been happening lately where I, as commentator, seem to be receiving advice from other people about my comment. I don't see the interpretation of dreams on this site as group work. I think the dreamer should consider each comment and see what works for him or her.
That being said, I am taking a break from this website. Dream work is tricky and can unleash shadows we are not ready for. At 74 years of age, I am trying to keep my life simple.
Sincerely, Lyn

 

[Harvey]

I invite everyone to put the dream interpreter on the shins during dream interpretation

I invite everyone to put some heat on the dream interpreter asking critical questions about how he or she get to conclusions and not just swallow everything.

Dear Harvey, I obviously did not make myself clear and it is very possible that I have lost the whole thread of this conversation. My point is that if I answer a dreamer,
I don't feel it is right for another person to critique my take on the dream, except the dreamer. This has been happening lately where I, as commentator, seem to be receiving advice from other people about my comment. I don't see the interpretation of dreams on this site as group work. I think the dreamer should consider each comment and see what works for him or her.
That being said, I am taking a break from this website. Dream work is tricky and can unleash shadows we are not ready for. At 74 years of age, I am trying to keep my life simple.
Sincerely, Lyn

You should not do that. Don't go away. Don't see me as a Threat. I did't critisize you when i said "

Indeed Lyn, often simply wishfull thingking. But I was especially hoping for critical questions from you and all the travelers of the exercise created by Paul. This is a special case. And I consider it very likely that her wish has already been fulfilled if she has gone into the suggestions of her soul and made a small comment near or towards K. We haven't seen her since then, hopefully she'll report back.

If you read well i tried to say that i agree that 90 % cases it is true what you are saying. That was the reason that normaly i don't take cases of young people who are in love. I come from a site that was the playground for my 'fieldwork' where the minimum amount of dreams was about 20 a day. And a vast majority was about "the girl or the boy i'm in love with".

I WANT YOU ALL BOMBARD ME WITH CRITICAL QUESTIONS.

Because of the time and energy i don't write every thing in detail knowing where i came from and have explained at least 5000 dreams the last 7 years, that the vast majoraty of the dreamers, even if they before begged for an explanation, don't reply. I do it fot The Truth. But if people ask questions i will go in depth an lay everything necessary out.